Mistress Matisse

I had some letters lately about the whole women-only sex party discussion. So I chose this one as an example to use in addressing them. (ed...

Extended Remix On Women-Only Parties Oh, I was bad, I did not post this follow-up material to my column on Friday as I said I would. Here’s...

Wow, This One Got Long I’m in a letter-answering mood this week, let’s see what else we can pull out of the mailbag… Mistress Matisse… I hav...

Am I Or Not? Cool reader Trix recently alerted me to the fact that I was quoted in this book: Yes Means Yes! Visions of Female Sexual Powe...

I don't usually re-post these sorts of things.... But this is so beautiful. The music is great, the photos are moving. It's such a p...

So I feel like I should write about something other than politics, just because that's all we've been talking and thinking about for...

Wow. Wow. What an amazing and historic night. Monk and I sat watching the returns, shrieking and clutching each other and saying "Omigo...

I'm voting today! No, I didn't do mail-in like most people, I get a weird pleasure out of going to the actual polling place. We'...

Good lord, I'd have run for Vice-President myself if I'd known I'd get $150 thousand dollars worth of new clothes. Wow. I mean, ...

The visit with my Mom is going fine. Guess what? She is just as obsessed as I am with the election. Must be something genetic, huh? We'r...

The new column, in which I reveal a secret and somewhat taboo fantasy. Don't judge me. In other political gossip, I did get a nice emai...

Well, I had a busy weekend. For one thing, I taught a class at a writer's convention, which I was excited but somewhat stressed about. I...

Just For Some Political Balance… This is why I don’t think I’m ever going to be a really gold-star liberal. I sorta kinda agree a little bit...

A few observations as I get ready to jet off to Las Vegas... My cat and I have spent more time in the vet's office lately that either on...

Preface: I had originally planned to not post this call for opinions on this blog, because I wanted to solicit answers from more narrowly-f...

My 736th Rant About How Words Are Important! Or maybe it’s not that many. But sweet Jesus Christ, you’d think if you were going to use a wor...

A call to action, from The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom... *** Kinky is NOT a Diagnosis! The DSM Revision Petition The DSM Revisio...

Politics: Huh. Apparently the two qualifications for being vice-president of the United States are a) boobs and b) a snarky turn of phrase...