Mistress Matisse

Been missing my podcasts? They are soon to return, but meanwhile, enjoy me on Dan Savage's podcast, Savage Love!

I found out today that Jezebel.com wants to link to my latest Stranger column: The Great Polyamory vs Polyfuckery Debate. I'm charmed ...

Now and then, I get emails from kind readers saying, "Hey, isn't this your picture? Did you know this person had it on his/her site...

Linkage to this and that... The new Stranger column, in which I wax nostalgic about flying blood, and reveal the problem with Mormon vampire...

What am I reading lately? A little of everything… I bought, but have not read yet, this one: In the Devil's Garden: A Sinful History of ...

The new Stranger column, talking about my recent Kink.com shoot, is here. Also, as I do every year, I donated a two-hour session to the Stra...

I’m working on a Stranger column about my overall experiences of shooting with the Kink.com site, EverythingButt.com. But today I’ll just ...

Goodness, I really blew off blogging this week, didn't I? Ah well. We'll resume our regularly scheduled rants and observations next ...

Polyamory in Pop Culture MTV aired its "True Life" documentary titled "I'm Polyamorous." Poly in The News blog has a...

Read Me Elsewhere The new column in The Stranger, in which I talk about the optimum intervals for going down on women. (I'm currently d...

The latest installment of the web-cast series about polyamory, Family. I can't say I really understand where this is going, plot-wise. B...

Zombies. They’re sort of like bacon, aren’t they? (No, I don’t mean that you eat them. Everyone knows zombies eat us. We are the bacon, for...

Read or Listen I uploaded a new podcast, here. First Monk and I read a letter about safewords, and make mention of my two favorite safewor...

A new blog link! My rock-star fabulous pal Lamalani is this year's International Ms Leather. I have known Lama ever since she was just ...

I myself often look at random people and try to imagine what they'd look like naked. Sometimes I do so while waiting in line at the bank...

Good Information To Have: a video from Red Light Chicago about what exactly happens if you get arrested on a misdemeanor prostitution charg...

The new column is up at the Stranger. Enjoy... Also, just because it's cool and very good advice: the Red Light District Chicago site -...

A call to action, from The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom... *** Kinky is NOT a Diagnosis! The DSM Revision Petition The DSM Revisio...

Like to hear me talk?, Listen to me on Dan Savage's podcast. *** Non-sexy question: Seattle people, have any of ya'll dealt wit...