Mistress Matisse

Two important points before you read this. One: in this blog post, I make some sweeping, gender-based generalizations, and I make them in a ...

Letters To The Mistress Dear Mistress Matisse Why is the BDSM community so reverse-sexist? I have seen your columns about people abusing sla...

From The Mailbag This is an interesting question. I can give my take on it, but I have no specialized knowledge of the issue. If any of you ...

Sex Workers and Money Management "Dear Mistress Matisse... (Edited for length, but some nice compliments, thank you!) ... I am in searc...

From The Mailbox A little over a year ago you wrote a column about connecting with your strap-on and taking control. I did not read this art...

From the 2004 archives: letter from the infamous Tampon Man. Now this? This is a good old-fashioned weirdo letter. It’s sort of sad - I hard...

Special People Dear Mistress Matisse, I am contacting you for some advice about getting started as a courtesan. I've been trying to navi...

Letters To The Mistress Dear Mistress Matisse, I am in a poly relationship with a man I’m engaged to. We’ve been together almost three years...

Online translators are responsible for a lot of unintentional comedy in the world of email. I got this note recently, and I will preface my ...

Letters To The Mistress (Edited for length, and for identifying details) Hello Mistress Matisse, I recently attempted to make a foray into t...

From The Mailbag I would like to serve a couple. It’s been hard to find dominant men who are physically and intellectually superior to me bu...

Letters To The Mistress I have been interested in BDSM for some time, and would very much like to become a part of the community as a sub...

Another letter, because there’s a bunch of them stacked up in the mailbox…. This came to "Mistress Matisse and Twisted Monk", but ...

Letters: Advice From An Expert So today, I decided to let my very best friend in the whole world take a crack at the Letters file. In addit...

I had some letters lately about the whole women-only sex party discussion. So I chose this one as an example to use in addressing them. (ed...

You’ve Got Questions, I’ve Got Answers Dear Mistress Matisse: I have listened to a couple of your podcasts and enjoy them, however I was won...

Letters and Snark I get a lot of unsolicited offers to be my slave, and most of them are about as eye-rolling as you'd expect. Anyone wh...

Podcast Follow Up "I was really looking forward to listening to you podcast from Dec 14 as it covered how to meet kinky romantic partne...

A Question For The Kinky Neurologists Yes, it's a letters sort of week. But on this letter, I am putting out a call for suggestions. I...