Mistress Matisse

The latest column in The Stranger, about the way one should measure one's success as a top. And an answer to a question about collars an...

I have neglected the blog lately, so here's a bit of catch-up. A Stranger column about Why Nerds Rule The BDSM Community . And the one b...

Two important points before you read this. One: in this blog post, I make some sweeping, gender-based generalizations, and I make them in a ...

The latest Stranger column, about unproductive behaviors that certain types of male/female couples fall into, when seeking a woman to join t...

I have a new Stranger column up, and I’m expecting some blowback from it, either on the Stranger page or elsewhere on the web, because I am ...

From The Mailbag This is an interesting question. I can give my take on it, but I have no specialized knowledge of the issue. If any of you ...

Sex Workers and Money Management "Dear Mistress Matisse... (Edited for length, but some nice compliments, thank you!) ... I am in searc...

From The Mailbox A little over a year ago you wrote a column about connecting with your strap-on and taking control. I did not read this art...

What Do You Do? A pal of mine asked me a question yesterday, and I’m just going to pop off an answer here. This will not be the most polishe...

Special People Dear Mistress Matisse, I am contacting you for some advice about getting started as a courtesan. I've been trying to navi...

Letters To The Mistress Dear Mistress Matisse, I am in a poly relationship with a man I’m engaged to. We’ve been together almost three years...

Quick And Dirty Podcasts Monk and I have been so busy the last month, we have had no time to get down to the studio where we usually record ...

I'm still getting caught up with Real Life. So, a look back at some of Mistress Matisse's Greatest Blog Hits. From the last few year...

Letters To The Mistress (Edited for length, and for identifying details) Hello Mistress Matisse, I recently attempted to make a foray into t...

From The Mailbag I would like to serve a couple. It’s been hard to find dominant men who are physically and intellectually superior to me bu...

I've been being lazy for a few days, my dear readers, but I will be more in a writing mood soon. Meanwhile, enjoy the newest Stranger co...

Letters To The Mistress I have been interested in BDSM for some time, and would very much like to become a part of the community as a sub...

Under My Protection and Collars of Consideration I saw some questions about this on a kink community board I’m on, so I’m using them as a b...

Another letter, because there’s a bunch of them stacked up in the mailbox…. This came to "Mistress Matisse and Twisted Monk", but ...