Mistress Matisse

What am I reading lately? A little of everything… I bought, but have not read yet, this one: In the Devil's Garden: A Sinful History of ...

Time for another podcast! In this one, Monk reads an original poem – or at least, we hope it is original – sent to him by a reader. And he r...

Another podcast, and another riff from Monk about how I’m playing with my nipple. Even though I’m not. Then, letters: the first is from a l...

Art Imitates Life Or is the other way around? I can never remember. But I was thinking about it last night, when Monk and I did our second a...

Primary/Secondary, BDSM Scene Interruptions, and Kink Celebrities A fresh new podcast! By popular request, we’ve gone to a slightly longer f...

Here's a brand-new podcast! (Even though it’s only Monday. I’m busy writing a column.) In this one, TwistedMonk and I answer a letter f...

Oh, The Media! First, I have a new column over at The Stranger. And yes, it's about the "Alexa Dicarlo" issue. If I had had m...

It's Wednesday, and it's a new podcast! Monk starts off with a letter from a busty sex worker asking how to handle phone calls from...

Las Vegas Kinky People! My dear Monk is coming to your town very soon - go see him in action. The class is called “Sensual Rope Bondage for...

It's time for... a fresh podcast! (The page formatting continues to show the headline all wonky. I don't know why, but ignore it. Cl...

I wasn’t going to upload this last podcast. But Monk says I’m being silly. And lord knows, I need the blog-content, I've been way too bu...

I’m off to Vegas until Friday, so while I jet away, enjoy a new podcast. This one is letters from readers with questions about polyamory. Fi...

A new podcast! First there’s a lot of silly banter about needles and being naked in bed, and then Monk reads a letter about how to do fast,...

Another podcast! This one's about polyamory. First, Monk and I answer a question about time-management for poly people: how many partn...

(Warning: there is NO sex or naughty stuff in this post. And like Pascal, I made it long because I lacked the time to make it short.) Mist...

Reader Letters I've been reading your blog and columns for quite a while now and have found your thoughts on BDSM, sex work, and polyamo...

Today is Monk's birthday. As I have mentioned every year for the last five years, there are a lot of amazingly cool things about Monk....

I uploaded a new podcast. In this one, Monk and I read and answer letters about polyamory. First, we talk about the not-so-good idea of com...

So this week, for a 12seconds video , I talked Monk into showing me his naked push-ups. Well, I sort of tricked him into it. See, he always...