Mistress Matisse

Wow, did I get a weird email today.  First, quick backstory: Professor Patti Adler is a professor of sociology at University of Colorad...

So, I'm not really officially blogging again. (Unless I decide that I am.) But something came to my inbox today that left me half-laug...

Hi. So, yeah - I'm not blogging so much these days. Who knows, this blog may live again some time, but not right now. If you're ne...

The latest column in The Stranger, about the way one should measure one's success as a top. And an answer to a question about collars an...

I have neglected the blog lately, so here's a bit of catch-up. A Stranger column about Why Nerds Rule The BDSM Community . And the one b...

Been missing my podcasts? They are soon to return, but meanwhile, enjoy me on Dan Savage's podcast, Savage Love!

Another of the Blog Greatest Hits: Occasionally the tables are unexpectedly turned on the the Mistress... *** So I got handled by a lot of ...

I continue to mine my own archives to bring ya'll some long-form amusement... This is a story about what happens when women cruise each ...

Just to show ya'll that I have not abandoned you: a repost of a scene Jae and I reminisced about the other day - spanking the Bicycle Ma...

I've been really bad about not updating recently. And this URL is due for a big overhaul soon, so if you see it changing, don't pani...

Two important points before you read this. One: in this blog post, I make some sweeping, gender-based generalizations, and I make them in a ...