Mistress Matisse

I amused myself by going into the blog archives to see what I was writing about on January 20th in 2005. It turned out to be one of the Sill...

Here's a brand-new podcast! (Even though it’s only Monday. I’m busy writing a column.) In this one, TwistedMonk and I answer a letter f...

Oh, The Media! First, I have a new column over at The Stranger. And yes, it's about the "Alexa Dicarlo" issue. If I had had m...

Time for a new podcast! This one's a lulu. Let me preface it by remarking that Monk and I are practitioners of safer safe, and we want t...

Letters and Snark I get a lot of unsolicited offers to be my slave, and most of them are about as eye-rolling as you'd expect. Anyone wh...

It's Wednesday, and it's a new podcast! Monk starts off with a letter from a busty sex worker asking how to handle phone calls from...

A few more pictures from New Years Eve. One of Puck and I in our party dresses. (Forgive the clumsy crop. My utterly amazing party-assista...

New Stranger Column There's usually a seven-day lag time in between me turning columns into the Stranger and them hitting the street. (E...

A post inspired by a brief conversation with a friend: why you should not write client data down. I have known sex workers who kept records....

Las Vegas Kinky People! My dear Monk is coming to your town very soon - go see him in action. The class is called “Sensual Rope Bondage for...

Random Sexiness I love this video clip. Love. It. I don't know about the rest of you ladies, but I do not intend to have a sexless old ...

It's time for... a fresh podcast! (The page formatting continues to show the headline all wonky. I don't know why, but ignore it. Cl...

Let me tell you a story… Some years back, I used to do a lot of photography. I miss it, but it’s a hobby I just don’t have time for anymore....

Fact or Fiction I was interested to see the whole Alexa Di Carlo debate come to a public boiling point a few days ago. I’ve been hearing abo...

In Which I Sort Of Go All Fangirl The lovely and talented Belle de Jour was good enough to grant me an interview recently, in the wake of ...

Podcast Follow Up "I was really looking forward to listening to you podcast from Dec 14 as it covered how to meet kinky romantic partne...

I am off today to spend a couple of days out of town, so while I'm doing that, here's a new podcast! Monk and I answer a letter abou...

A Question For The Kinky Neurologists Yes, it's a letters sort of week. But on this letter, I am putting out a call for suggestions. I...

From a Letter... ...I find myself 9 years into a triad with myself (male) and my original partner of 17 years and our other partner of 9 yea...

Letters That Fail M. Matisse, I couldn't help notice you mentioned Jae in your blog the other day. You haven't mentioned her in ...