Mistress Matisse

In Which I Sort Of Go All Fangirl The lovely and talented Belle de Jour was good enough to grant me an interview recently, in the wake of ...

Podcast Follow Up "I was really looking forward to listening to you podcast from Dec 14 as it covered how to meet kinky romantic partne...

I am off today to spend a couple of days out of town, so while I'm doing that, here's a new podcast! Monk and I answer a letter abou...

A Question For The Kinky Neurologists Yes, it's a letters sort of week. But on this letter, I am putting out a call for suggestions. I...

From a Letter... ...I find myself 9 years into a triad with myself (male) and my original partner of 17 years and our other partner of 9 yea...

Letters That Fail M. Matisse, I couldn't help notice you mentioned Jae in your blog the other day. You haven't mentioned her in ...

The new Stranger column, talking about my recent Kink.com shoot, is here. Also, as I do every year, I donated a two-hour session to the Stra...

Dan Savage had me back again as a guest on his podcast, and we had a lovely, silly time answering the call-in questions about kinky sex. Epi...

Letters To The Mistress I'd like to politely ask your opinion on something I've come across and I'm asking you because nowhere e...

A couple of pictures from the everythingbutt.com shoot! Click on them, they get bigger. Or go see the whole thing!

This is not a rant. But it is a suggestion to my guys – and the men who visit other sex workers. A lot of men have a dedicated email accoun...

I wish I had something terribly interesting to say. However, I don't. Besides: don't get stomach flu, because it is no fun. But I...

A new Stranger column about types of tops. Now I'm off to have some early-birthday festivities with Armani... bye!

I’m working on a Stranger column about my overall experiences of shooting with the Kink.com site, EverythingButt.com. But today I’ll just ...

Last Night I want you to imagine an enormous warehouse. Huge. Big enough to comfortably house, say, a DC-9. It might be even bigger, but the...

Okay, I know, it's totally teenage-girl to blog about my horoscope. I might as well go buy a Twilight t-shirt, right? (Not that I don...

I have blogged before about how I am not one to be chatty with strangers. I can be a trifle reserved even in places where “the roof constitu...

Goodness, I really blew off blogging this week, didn't I? Ah well. We'll resume our regularly scheduled rants and observations next ...

Complete and Unedited Email! Plus, remarks on kinky coffee ... SUBJECT: Rashead from Bangladesh Hello, What is your Father's name ...