Mistress Matisse

Updated Availability Hey Seattle people: If you’re think of trying to see me, this coming week is a good time to do that. I have some time f...

After way too long of an interval - blame it on our busy schedules - Monk and I got together in the usual zombie-proof sound studio and rec...

Old Attachments I did something significant lately. Significant to me, anyway. I cut off my old phone number. It’s the one I got when I firs...

Polyamory in Pop Culture MTV aired its "True Life" documentary titled "I'm Polyamorous." Poly in The News blog has a...

From The MailBag i wanted to ask your advice, about a punishment that i feel i deserve. i know you have lots of experience with punishments ...

A fashion post, for those of you who like such things… I could not find a good picture online of the dress from the Twitpic yesterday! I’m s...

Read Me Elsewhere The new column in The Stranger, in which I talk about the optimum intervals for going down on women. (I'm currently d...

Facials - Not The Spa Kind Last night at Puck's birthday gathering, one of the dinner-table discussions was whether it's inherently ...

I finally saw Inglorious Basterds over the weekend, and a couple of people asked me what I thought of it, so… Spoilers/plot discussion fol...

You know, every now and then I have to post pictures of something scary just so ya'll don't forget I am, actually, very mean. Don...

Notes About My Schedule For my friends who like to plan ahead: I’m out of town Sept 26th to the 29th – I’ll be at Folsom Street Fair. (And ...

I love fashion. Especially when it looks like this. Photo on the left? Eh. I don't do belts, generally, and those boots are odd. But: ni...

I was reading a message board lately and saw someone talking about “open poly versus closed poly.” And I thought: what is the point of that ...

From The Mailbag Ever since I read The Story of O , I have been having some interesting thoughts on BDSM and Feminism. None of my friends ar...

(Warning: there is NO sex or naughty stuff in this post. And like Pascal, I made it long because I lacked the time to make it short.) Mist...

This may surprise you, but there are still some kinky things I haven’t done yet. Not many, but some. However, that list has gotten shorter l...

Reader Letters I've been reading your blog and columns for quite a while now and have found your thoughts on BDSM, sex work, and polyamo...

The One-Penis Policy column continues to generate a great deal of comment, both on the Stranger page and on various social-networking sites...

What I'm Reading While I was in Bellingham over the weekend, Elvis and I stopped in Village Books and I picked up a couple of things. I...

Letter of the Day "I've recently gotten into a bit of sex work, and so far I really enjoy it. Most of the clients I've seen hav...