Mistress Matisse

Read Me Elsewhere The new column in The Stranger, in which I talk about the optimum intervals for going down on women. (I'm currently d...

Facials - Not The Spa Kind Last night at Puck's birthday gathering, one of the dinner-table discussions was whether it's inherently ...

I finally saw Inglorious Basterds over the weekend, and a couple of people asked me what I thought of it, so… Spoilers/plot discussion fol...

You know, every now and then I have to post pictures of something scary just so ya'll don't forget I am, actually, very mean. Don...

Notes About My Schedule For my friends who like to plan ahead: I’m out of town Sept 26th to the 29th – I’ll be at Folsom Street Fair. (And ...

I love fashion. Especially when it looks like this. Photo on the left? Eh. I don't do belts, generally, and those boots are odd. But: ni...

I was reading a message board lately and saw someone talking about “open poly versus closed poly.” And I thought: what is the point of that ...

From The Mailbag Ever since I read The Story of O , I have been having some interesting thoughts on BDSM and Feminism. None of my friends ar...

(Warning: there is NO sex or naughty stuff in this post. And like Pascal, I made it long because I lacked the time to make it short.) Mist...

This may surprise you, but there are still some kinky things I haven’t done yet. Not many, but some. However, that list has gotten shorter l...

Reader Letters I've been reading your blog and columns for quite a while now and have found your thoughts on BDSM, sex work, and polyamo...

The One-Penis Policy column continues to generate a great deal of comment, both on the Stranger page and on various social-networking sites...

What I'm Reading While I was in Bellingham over the weekend, Elvis and I stopped in Village Books and I picked up a couple of things. I...

Letter of the Day "I've recently gotten into a bit of sex work, and so far I really enjoy it. Most of the clients I've seen hav...

This week's column in The Stranger - which is sure to be a flame-inducing free-for-all, based on the thread a mere mention of it spawne...

Today is Monk's birthday. As I have mentioned every year for the last five years, there are a lot of amazingly cool things about Monk....

Pro Domme Advice O' The Week I am an aspiring professional mistress and though I am working on learning techniques, etiquette, and the l...

A charming man pointed me to this blog entry on a BDSM-themed blog. It's about the concept BDSM people call "topping from the bott...

Random Pull From The Mailbag I reached y our article from a mention of "hot-bi-babe syndrome " (which term I was not familiar ...

The latest installment of the web-cast series about polyamory, Family. I can't say I really understand where this is going, plot-wise. B...