Mistress Matisse

Letter of the Day "I've recently gotten into a bit of sex work, and so far I really enjoy it. Most of the clients I've seen hav...

This week's column in The Stranger - which is sure to be a flame-inducing free-for-all, based on the thread a mere mention of it spawne...

Today is Monk's birthday. As I have mentioned every year for the last five years, there are a lot of amazingly cool things about Monk....

Pro Domme Advice O' The Week I am an aspiring professional mistress and though I am working on learning techniques, etiquette, and the l...

A charming man pointed me to this blog entry on a BDSM-themed blog. It's about the concept BDSM people call "topping from the bott...

Random Pull From The Mailbag I reached y our article from a mention of "hot-bi-babe syndrome " (which term I was not familiar ...

The latest installment of the web-cast series about polyamory, Family. I can't say I really understand where this is going, plot-wise. B...

A new Stranger column about a delicate matter: sex workers and race. Like many of my Stranger columns, it's a subject that deserves fa...

The Weather Outside Is Frightful The Mistress is cranky about the heat. I know, I know, I don't like snow , either. So persnickety am I....

Complete and unedited email I got recently... SUBJECT: my 3 guesses at what your fetish is that you indulge with Milo 1. He is an amput...

I am gearing up for a busy seven days, and they’re going to be rather split-second in terms of timing. And somewhat schizophrenic in nature....

Letters: Emotional Baggage I'm looking for guidance on trying to discover just the kind of submissive I am or if perhaps my feelings are...

I'm going to vent here for a moment about some internet silliness that occasionally happens to me. Here's how it works: someone post...

I just watched this video from CNBC about “high-end prostitution”. And it made me roll my eyes a lot. Okay, on one hand, it’s really not bad...

Once again, I'm doing an informal survey from among the ladies of Seattle for a Stranger column. The subject is a delicate one - it'...

This one made me laugh because... I, um, know some people who doe that thing about storeing food and water and stuff for an earthquake or ...

Zombies. They’re sort of like bacon, aren’t they? (No, I don’t mean that you eat them. Everyone knows zombies eat us. We are the bacon, for...

I don’t blog about specific kinky products very much, just because every time I do, I get a flood of email from people wanting me to "r...

I uploaded a new podcast. In this one, Monk and I read and answer letters about polyamory. First, we talk about the not-so-good idea of com...

I meant to answer some letters today, but I was endlessly tweaking my column right up to deadline. So instead, just some pop culture notes a...