Mistress Matisse

This one made me laugh because... I, um, know some people who doe that thing about storeing food and water and stuff for an earthquake or ...

Zombies. They’re sort of like bacon, aren’t they? (No, I don’t mean that you eat them. Everyone knows zombies eat us. We are the bacon, for...

I don’t blog about specific kinky products very much, just because every time I do, I get a flood of email from people wanting me to "r...

I uploaded a new podcast. In this one, Monk and I read and answer letters about polyamory. First, we talk about the not-so-good idea of com...

I meant to answer some letters today, but I was endlessly tweaking my column right up to deadline. So instead, just some pop culture notes a...

Read or Listen I uploaded a new podcast, here. First Monk and I read a letter about safewords, and make mention of my two favorite safewor...

Here's my new column in this week's Stranger. Enjoy!

Here's a confession that reveals me as either an optimist, or a masochist, I'm not sure which: I just read the newest Anita Blake bo...

Another episode of Family, the polyamory web-cast series... Enjoy. (If you like train-wrecks, that is. Yeek.) Amusing trivia: I've been ...

Yes Means Yes From the mailbag: This is an edited-down version of the letter, mainly because the original is very long and includes a lot of...

Another podcast! Now with extra perviness! In this episode, Monk and I do letters from readers, and talk about smaller-top/bigger-bottom str...

My take on David Carradine's death, in a new column on The Stranger. For your listening pleasure, Monk does a podcast with Dr. Dick! Mea...

Recent Reading List Crazy for God: How I Grew Up as One of the Elect, Helped Found the Religious Right, and Lived to Take All (or Almost All...

From the Mailbag Mistress Matisse, I was wondering if you could help me…I had a really bad encounter with a guy, and was wondering if I shou...

A Podcast And Birthday Wishes! A fresh podcast, in which we read some follow-up letters about kinky relationships, and then Monk rants about...

Wow, This One Got Long I’m in a letter-answering mood this week, let’s see what else we can pull out of the mailbag… Mistress Matisse… I hav...

Letter from a reader: A community I frequent was recently invaded by someone who claimed we had driven a friend of his to suicide. Less than...

Believe. In Gravity. Last night Elvis and I got to observe something you don't see very often: a very high-budget, high-tech Las Veg...

Having a wonderful time in Sin City, sinning. Meanwhile, the new Stranger column is up. It's about the recent changes on Craigslist. En...

Travel Notes (In Which I Am Very Parenthetical) I'm off to Las Vegas today, to spend some time with Elvis... (That's a nickname, by ...