Mistress Matisse

A Podcast And Birthday Wishes! A fresh podcast, in which we read some follow-up letters about kinky relationships, and then Monk rants about...

Wow, This One Got Long I’m in a letter-answering mood this week, let’s see what else we can pull out of the mailbag… Mistress Matisse… I hav...

Letter from a reader: A community I frequent was recently invaded by someone who claimed we had driven a friend of his to suicide. Less than...

Believe. In Gravity. Last night Elvis and I got to observe something you don't see very often: a very high-budget, high-tech Las Veg...

Having a wonderful time in Sin City, sinning. Meanwhile, the new Stranger column is up. It's about the recent changes on Craigslist. En...

Travel Notes (In Which I Am Very Parenthetical) I'm off to Las Vegas today, to spend some time with Elvis... (That's a nickname, by ...

It's time for another podcast with Mistress Matisse and Twisted Monk... In this one, we read some letters and talk about the very sticky...

I love popular-science author Mary Roach's writing so much. If you have not read Stiff and Bonk, you're missing out. (Her other bo...

Occasionally I am reminded that some newer kinky people don't know stuff about BDSM culture that I take for granted. Like the Hanky Code...

Some days I really want to spank Rob Brezsney. Scorpio Horoscope for week of May 21, 2009 "It's your choice, Scorpio. You could b...

Male Model Call Note: This is not a shoot I'm organizing or participating in. I'm just posting this information for a friend of min...

So this week, for a 12seconds video , I talked Monk into showing me his naked push-ups. Well, I sort of tricked him into it. See, he always...

Subject line from modeling-spam: HIGH PAYING TOPLESS EMINEM PHOTO SHOOT/UNCUT EMINEM VIDEO SHOOT Wow, Eminem is uncut? I really did not need...

In the last few days, there has been much discussion in the sex worker blogosphere about Craigslist's announcement that they will soon s...

At last, another podcast. (They were held up by a software-translation problem, but Monk fixed them. Yay!) In this one, we talk about hierar...

I know, I'm bad for posting nothing but video links the last two days. There will be a real post tomorrow. Meanwhile, enjoy footage from...

There's no new episode of the polyamory web-series "Family" this week. They are doing interviews with the three main actors, t...

Question for Seattle Escorts I’m writing a column for The Stranger about couples seeing escorts. If you’ve spent time with couples, and you’...

Here's the new column in The Stranger, about kink bloopers... Just about everyone I talked to about this column had a lulu of a story ...