Mistress Matisse

I love popular-science author Mary Roach's writing so much. If you have not read Stiff and Bonk, you're missing out. (Her other bo...

Occasionally I am reminded that some newer kinky people don't know stuff about BDSM culture that I take for granted. Like the Hanky Code...

Some days I really want to spank Rob Brezsney. Scorpio Horoscope for week of May 21, 2009 "It's your choice, Scorpio. You could b...

Male Model Call Note: This is not a shoot I'm organizing or participating in. I'm just posting this information for a friend of min...

So this week, for a 12seconds video , I talked Monk into showing me his naked push-ups. Well, I sort of tricked him into it. See, he always...

Subject line from modeling-spam: HIGH PAYING TOPLESS EMINEM PHOTO SHOOT/UNCUT EMINEM VIDEO SHOOT Wow, Eminem is uncut? I really did not need...

In the last few days, there has been much discussion in the sex worker blogosphere about Craigslist's announcement that they will soon s...

At last, another podcast. (They were held up by a software-translation problem, but Monk fixed them. Yay!) In this one, we talk about hierar...

I know, I'm bad for posting nothing but video links the last two days. There will be a real post tomorrow. Meanwhile, enjoy footage from...

There's no new episode of the polyamory web-series "Family" this week. They are doing interviews with the three main actors, t...

Question for Seattle Escorts I’m writing a column for The Stranger about couples seeing escorts. If you’ve spent time with couples, and you’...

Here's the new column in The Stranger, about kink bloopers... Just about everyone I talked to about this column had a lulu of a story ...

Schedule Notes EDITED at 6pm Thursday May 7th... Here's what I know about my availability for the next few weeks... I'm booked the r...

Highlights From A Family Wedding So every other Seattle sex blogger – and several from other places – have blogged about how great SEAF wa...

The Bindings Project - Teaser from Aaron Nanto on Vimeo . This is a teaser for Monk's show at SEAF. It's going to be great! What a...

Can I just say that while I'm a girl who likes almost any movie with hot guys + lots of violence and explosions, I'm really, really ...

I have a new column up, about something I noticed on my visit to a swing club a few weeks ago... *** A sad emotional event for me: I had to ...