Mistress Matisse

Here's the new column in The Stranger, about kink bloopers... Just about everyone I talked to about this column had a lulu of a story ...

Schedule Notes EDITED at 6pm Thursday May 7th... Here's what I know about my availability for the next few weeks... I'm booked the r...

Highlights From A Family Wedding So every other Seattle sex blogger – and several from other places – have blogged about how great SEAF wa...

The Bindings Project - Teaser from Aaron Nanto on Vimeo . This is a teaser for Monk's show at SEAF. It's going to be great! What a...

Can I just say that while I'm a girl who likes almost any movie with hot guys + lots of violence and explosions, I'm really, really ...

I have a new column up, about something I noticed on my visit to a swing club a few weeks ago... *** A sad emotional event for me: I had to ...

I’ve been thinking, the last few days, about how Twitter and how much I have come to use it. Twitter seems to be a rather polarizing thing –...

I had planned to actually write something for today, but I wound up taking my elderly and irascible cat into the emergency vet last night, ...

Perhaps in revenge for last week's video of him with nipple clamps on his eyebrows, Monk took a video clip of me in the shower. (I want...

A few notes about my schedule as I know it today… Tomorrow: I have nothing at all going on Thursday afternoon , and that just seems like a s...

A new podcast! Monk and I answer letters about rope tops getting overwhelmed by girls who want to ride the bondage-go-round, and then talk ...

Complete and unedited text of a recent letter…. dear misress me and my girlfriend are trying to learn about the mistress/master...

So I was lying in bed with Monk last night, with toys and rope and bottles of lube strewn around the whole room, like a kink bomb had gone o...

The new Stranger column is up. Backstory: I saw the witty and irreverent Ms. Mollena Williams at Kinkfest two weeks ago, and recalled that...

A new blog link! My rock-star fabulous pal Lamalani is this year's International Ms Leather. I have known Lama ever since she was just ...

A new podcast, in which Monk and I talk about "name-dropping" versus giving references, and then we say things that will make furr...

So my blogging has been a bit off this week, as you may have noticed. You see, I've been being topped by Mistress Lateral Epicondylitis...

You know how you go out of town and you forget about all the not-fun stuff you left hanging in your absence? Or is it that somehow, in a not...