Mistress Matisse

So I was lying in bed with Monk last night, with toys and rope and bottles of lube strewn around the whole room, like a kink bomb had gone o...

The new Stranger column is up. Backstory: I saw the witty and irreverent Ms. Mollena Williams at Kinkfest two weeks ago, and recalled that...

A new blog link! My rock-star fabulous pal Lamalani is this year's International Ms Leather. I have known Lama ever since she was just ...

A new podcast, in which Monk and I talk about "name-dropping" versus giving references, and then we say things that will make furr...

So my blogging has been a bit off this week, as you may have noticed. You see, I've been being topped by Mistress Lateral Epicondylitis...

You know how you go out of town and you forget about all the not-fun stuff you left hanging in your absence? Or is it that somehow, in a not...

A new podcast, in which Monk and I answer two reader letters. The first one is from a woman asking us about dealing with a disparity in sex...

No, I haven't run away and joined the circus. I've just been in full-on leather conference mode for the last three days. If you hav...

The new Stranger column, in which I discuss mean dirty talk. As opposed to nice dirty talk. Enjoy it while I get ready to zoom off to Port...

Answer My Mail Okay, so if you've been reading me a while, you know that on a regular basis, I publish some annoying email I have gotten...

Let's see, I have a bunch of notes about different things. There's a new episode of Family... Classical music fans will enjoy it...

A fresh podcast! Monk and I found a new sound guy - our old one left town - which is great, because neither of us want to deal with recordin...

So in the wake of yesterday's post someone - who shall remain nameless - sent me a teasing email about how, oh, did I need a power tool ...

A number of alert readers sent me links to some version of this story. Yowch! I posted a little over a year ago about how I do indeed have...

Okay, so I have just dropped a ton of money on this remodel - more money than I have ever spent on any one thing in my entire life. More th...

Monk and I had a drink Saturday night with a pal of mine, a lovely woman who is a very successful courtesan. With her was a man whom she int...

Open To Suggestions I was talking to Monk last night about the whole 12 second video thing. He and I have both been saying for a while that...

Here's the new Stranger column. Now I'm off into a busy day of errands and shopping, and then some spa time at Banya 5. Bye!

The newest installment of the web series about a polyamorous triad, Family. I was pleased to see that they got some good press in the Seattl...