Mistress Matisse

I'm off today on a little overnight retreat with Armani. We're going to a secret location to have some spa time - hot stone massage,...

I myself often look at random people and try to imagine what they'd look like naked. Sometimes I do so while waiting in line at the bank...

Literary Masochism I recently finished the Dan Simmons novel, Drood. And that is no mean feat, my friends, even for a devoted (and fast) re...

I had an email exchange with someone lately that reminded me, for one thing, how happy I am that I don’t have to see anyone new unless I thi...

Another podcast: Monk and I speculate about Jews and kink, and then Monk explains the story of how he got into kink and became a rope-maker...

A new column in The Stranger. Not for the easily squicked. Hardy souls, enjoy!

So, I'm flying to Las Vegas today with the ever-rockin' Elvis. I think we're going to have much fun, and I'll be Twittering ...

So, I have been digitally acquainted with San Francisco writer and editor Stephen Elliot for a while. He's the editor of the online ar...

Episode #8 in the Seattle-produced web-series about polyamory, "Family". It's Part II of the "Meet The Parents" espi...

A clever reader sent me this letter... I think I can claim to have read all your blog archives, and would never presume to advise you abou...

Complete and unedited email... Hi Mistress my name is slave X.Hi ave this fantasy from a long time to get a permanent damage in a cbt to...

First off, thank you to all the nice people who sent me that small avalanche of "happy blog-anniversary" emails yesterday. That w...

A milestone: as of yesterday, I have been blogging for five years. Five years. That feels like a long time. I had no idea, when I started, t...

The new Stranger column is up: Fluid Sex . Enjoy!

Today I come home from Portland and see just what sort of remodeling activity has been going on in my house while I've been away. My con...

Am I Or Not? Cool reader Trix recently alerted me to the fact that I was quoted in this book: Yes Means Yes! Visions of Female Sexual Powe...

I’m Too…Something I'm off today on a trip today, which should be delightful. I'm back Wednesday. Meanwhile, a little something from ...

Oh, This Is Lame! I got an email from Terisa Greenan, the creator of the polyamory-themed web series "Family" that I've been...

I don't usually re-post these sorts of things.... But this is so beautiful. The music is great, the photos are moving. It's such a p...

Letter From A Reader Dear Matisse, Firstly, thank you for your entertaining and informative blog. I have been enjoying it for several years ...