Mistress Matisse

The new Stranger column is up: Fluid Sex . Enjoy!

Today I come home from Portland and see just what sort of remodeling activity has been going on in my house while I've been away. My con...

Am I Or Not? Cool reader Trix recently alerted me to the fact that I was quoted in this book: Yes Means Yes! Visions of Female Sexual Powe...

I’m Too…Something I'm off today on a trip today, which should be delightful. I'm back Wednesday. Meanwhile, a little something from ...

Oh, This Is Lame! I got an email from Terisa Greenan, the creator of the polyamory-themed web series "Family" that I've been...

I don't usually re-post these sorts of things.... But this is so beautiful. The music is great, the photos are moving. It's such a p...

Letter From A Reader Dear Matisse, Firstly, thank you for your entertaining and informative blog. I have been enjoying it for several years ...

So, I'm currently banging my head against the keyboard of my computer, trying to make a Stranger column come out of it. I'm not sure...

I have arranged a large part of my life around the fact that I am not a morning person. As in, seriously not. However, sometimes one has to ...

It's a new edition of The Stranger and a new edition of me talking about sexy stuff. Enjoy!

Wow, there's a lot of kinky stuff going on this weekend. The perma-fabulous Midori is in town! She's hosting the annual Bang For The...

It's another episode of the polyamory web-cast series, Family. In this one, Gemma meets some of the neighbors... I'm enjoying these...

I read an article in the New York Times recently, about scientific studies of the nature of women’s sexual desires. It’s a long piece, but ...

Thank you, dear readers, for your outpouring of clever ideas and suggestions about lighting. Great minds apparently think alike - or Google...

Hey, clever readers - give to me your vast store of knowledge about lighting. Because it may be that what I want already exists, and my Goo...

A new podcast! In which Monk and I talk about sex work busts in Seattle and what not to do if you're operating a store-front sex work b...

So I'm mostly all about shopping for stuff for the house right now, since the Great Remodel of '09 is soon to begin. Thus, most of ...

Complete and unedited text of a recent email... Subject: Dominators Mistress Matisse, Do you know of any men who dominate women? I saw a v...

Happy Inauguration Day! This is a very historic day! And today, I am very happy and hopeful about the future of America! Yay, President Obam...

A few points of information about my schedule... I have time available Wednesday of this week , so if you've been trying (and failing)...