Mistress Matisse

Good Information To Have: a video from Red Light Chicago about what exactly happens if you get arrested on a misdemeanor prostitution charg...

So I put a new and terribly mean picture into the Flickr feed yesterday. (Nipples and staples and needles, oh my!) And today some thoughtf...

The latest Stranger column, about a subject that's near and dear to my heart: kinky sex. Enjoy!

While I'm off engaging in mean and delightful activities... Enjoy the newest episode of the polyamory web-series "Family" .

I’m about to start having some remodeling done at the house where I have sessions with people. I’m a little nervous about this. This is one ...

Hey, it's another podcast! We're back on the ball with these things. In this one, we respond to a letter asking about dominant women...

Good lord, I thought I got fucked-up letters. Eleven Gay Bars In Seattle Receive Threats To Poison Their Patrons With Ricin. The Stranger a...

Complete and unedited text of a recent email... SUBJECT: ok I'm new at this I love my wife but she refuses to dominate me in any way, sh...

I am not going to write about how much I hate snow. *** If you know me – or you’ve been reading me for very long – you know that I am often ...

Wow, it's 2009 - first post for the new year. I got together with a number of my closest friends to see the old year out. We missed a f...

Happy day - it's a new podcast! (Finally, right? I know.) First, Monk does a crazy 30-second riff on what a porn movie would sound like ...

Monk and I were sitting in the hot tub at Banya5 last night, talking about someone we know who lately started a business selling BDSM gear. ...

Merry Christmas to everyone who celebrates it! I am planning on staying pretty close to home today, but I think I'll have a lovely, mell...

Sigh. I have been frustrated, since last Thursday, by being unable to achieve anything of any satisfaction or import whatsoever that involve...

Okay, the word "shibari" has now officially jumped the shark. Not that this isn't a very cute dress, because it is. I'd we...

I was snowed in all day yesterday, which was slightly annoying, since I had a date I wanted to keep. But there was no way I was driving anyw...

Puck and I are so mean. Look what we did! But you know, if someone buys you a box of sixteen-gauge needles and gives them to you, well - wh...

The latest in a web-series about polyamory, called "Family." This one has nudity, so it's not work-safe. I will also remark t...

Today I'm off to spend a few days with a friend, so while I finish preparing for that, here's a book I've been reading that I en...

It's Thursday, and the new column is up at The Stranger. It's about sex work and the economy, and it would not have been possible wi...