Mistress Matisse

Some days, the writing-clever-things mode in my brain goes on vacation. Today? Was one of those days. But I have such wonderful fabulous peo...

The new column, in which I reveal a secret and somewhat taboo fantasy. Don't judge me. In other political gossip, I did get a nice emai...

I got a CD from Craig Morey today - all the images from the last shoot. Good lord, there are over a thousand images here. Some of them are ...

A new podcast! Monk and I read a letter from a woman who asks, "What qualifies someone as kinky ?" Then Monk and I address that, ...

Well, I had a busy weekend. For one thing, I taught a class at a writer's convention, which I was excited but somewhat stressed about. I...

Just For Some Political Balance… This is why I don’t think I’m ever going to be a really gold-star liberal. I sorta kinda agree a little bit...

In contrast to yesterday's Blackberry shot - Craig Morey sent me some samples from our shoot two weeks ago. He does such yummy work. (Bi...

I'm flying home from Vegas today. It's been great - we lolled by the pool, we gambled a bit, we shopped. (That's me at the shops...

I'm having a lovely time in Las Vegas. Since the stock market is tanking, I've decided to take my life savings and see if I can win ...

A few observations as I get ready to jet off to Las Vegas... My cat and I have spent more time in the vet's office lately that either on...

Preface: I had originally planned to not post this call for opinions on this blog, because I wanted to solicit answers from more narrowly-f...

The new column is up at the Stranger. Enjoy... Also, just because it's cool and very good advice: the Red Light District Chicago site -...

Greetings from San Francisco... We are having a perfectly lovely kinky time down here. The weather for Folsom Street Fair was great, and t...

Fundraiser For Martha Manning Weds Oct 1st at Chop Suey For those of you who don’t know, the owner of Seattle’s lesbian bar, The Wildrose, s...

From The "You've Got To Be Kidding" Department Complete and unedited text of a message sent to me via my Flickr account: the t...

A new podcast! In which I reveal my passion for a certain brawny cartoon character, and Monk and I answer reader's questions about how ...

My 736th Rant About How Words Are Important! Or maybe it’s not that many. But sweet Jesus Christ, you’d think if you were going to use a wor...

While I go off and spend a few days with a friend, a random pull from the mailbag for you to enjoy… Hi, I just read your article about meeti...

A call to action, from The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom... *** Kinky is NOT a Diagnosis! The DSM Revision Petition The DSM Revisio...