Mistress Matisse

I'm busy catching up with my life today, but this funny video clip about how birth control is marketed to women cracked me up, so - enjo...

I am really pleased to see this… “In a ruling with potentially wide implications for press freedom in Britain, a judge ruled Thursday that a...

I'm away from home today, so forgive me if I'm a bit slow answering phone calls and emails. It's a busy thing, being a Mistress....

I like this idea. But what's this "be gentle" nonsense?

A link to the new column, about how poly people don’t get toaster-ovens. I drank a fair amount of very nice wine last night. I went to ...

Probing Poly Questions I got this email today. Now, in the past I have only published letters from people who wrote to me knowing I was Mis...

Kink In The Media: As usual, while the mainstream media (and the psychology community) is far from totally enlightened and accepting of my ...

Someone was remarking to me lately how I should write a book. Which is very flattering, but not in the cards right now. I've talked abou...

It's Friday, and Round One of the Mom visit is drawing to a close. Whew. Meanwhile, here's another podcast. This one is less silly ...

Advanced BDSM: Branding Dear MM, (Edited: nice compliments.) So ... I started seeing this girl awhile ago. She works at a bakery and contin...

Scheduling note to my friends: I'm doing family duty today. But I am available to slip away for an hour here and there Wednesday and Th...

An odd occurrence recently... Someone I have not met before contacted me about a session. I am not meeting very many new people these days -...

Whoops, I forgot to link to the new column. It's a bit... tart. But you know I only say these things because you laugh. Also: Since Phi...

Happy Friday - and it's time for another podcast. This time, Monk and I talk about a subject we are eminently qualified to discuss: Ho...

Oh, man. See, this is why I’m not sure I want to be any more famous than I am. The New York Times ran an article this week about the fact th...

Writing about one’s life is tricky sometimes. It’s not just a matter of what I’m comfortable revealing to the world – I have to be careful n...

Pop Culture I saw two movies over the weekend, which is slightly unusual for me. And more oddly still, I had a moment of yeah, that’s h...

Wow, I’m not feeling super-inspired, writing-wise, the last week or so. And my motto is: when you can’t think of anything else to say - make...

This is something I’ve been wondering about lately, because of one of my friends’ argument’s for pre-marital sex. She’s of the opinion ...

Ya'll have been asking for it, so Monk and I made it happen: another podcast. In this edition, he and I both give our take on how to s...