Mistress Matisse

It's Friday, and Round One of the Mom visit is drawing to a close. Whew. Meanwhile, here's another podcast. This one is less silly ...

Advanced BDSM: Branding Dear MM, (Edited: nice compliments.) So ... I started seeing this girl awhile ago. She works at a bakery and contin...

Scheduling note to my friends: I'm doing family duty today. But I am available to slip away for an hour here and there Wednesday and Th...

An odd occurrence recently... Someone I have not met before contacted me about a session. I am not meeting very many new people these days -...

Whoops, I forgot to link to the new column. It's a bit... tart. But you know I only say these things because you laugh. Also: Since Phi...

Happy Friday - and it's time for another podcast. This time, Monk and I talk about a subject we are eminently qualified to discuss: Ho...

Oh, man. See, this is why I’m not sure I want to be any more famous than I am. The New York Times ran an article this week about the fact th...

Writing about one’s life is tricky sometimes. It’s not just a matter of what I’m comfortable revealing to the world – I have to be careful n...

Pop Culture I saw two movies over the weekend, which is slightly unusual for me. And more oddly still, I had a moment of yeah, that’s h...

Wow, I’m not feeling super-inspired, writing-wise, the last week or so. And my motto is: when you can’t think of anything else to say - make...

This is something I’ve been wondering about lately, because of one of my friends’ argument’s for pre-marital sex. She’s of the opinion ...

Ya'll have been asking for it, so Monk and I made it happen: another podcast. In this edition, he and I both give our take on how to s...

Photos And Events I told ya'll there would be a lot of pictures this week. Here’s another snap from my weekly narcissism date with...

It's a Two-Fer Thursday: the new Stranger column, about how much I hated working at Rick's and a special piece, about how much I ha...

So, I haven't posted photos of the evil things that I do for a while, it seems like it's time. Some of you will love them, some of y...

I'm having fun with the Blackberry cam. Taken at 8pm last night, in this super-space-age tanning machine Monk and I go to sometimes. Thi...

Letter From a Reader (Begins with very nice greetings and compliments) I am writing to ask if you can shed any light upon a most confusing ...

( Internal Dialog: Oh, god, it's one am. I'm tired, I had a busy day being kinky, and then I went to the sound studio and recorded a...

I don't have a real post for today, and you know who is to blame for that? Mary Roach. I can hardly stop reading her latest book, Bonk: ...

Letters From Readers I've read and enjoyed your blog for some time now and I was hoping you could give me some advice or steer me ...