Mistress Matisse

Photos And Events I told ya'll there would be a lot of pictures this week. Here’s another snap from my weekly narcissism date with...

It's a Two-Fer Thursday: the new Stranger column, about how much I hated working at Rick's and a special piece, about how much I ha...

So, I haven't posted photos of the evil things that I do for a while, it seems like it's time. Some of you will love them, some of y...

I'm having fun with the Blackberry cam. Taken at 8pm last night, in this super-space-age tanning machine Monk and I go to sometimes. Thi...

Letter From a Reader (Begins with very nice greetings and compliments) I am writing to ask if you can shed any light upon a most confusing ...

( Internal Dialog: Oh, god, it's one am. I'm tired, I had a busy day being kinky, and then I went to the sound studio and recorded a...

I don't have a real post for today, and you know who is to blame for that? Mary Roach. I can hardly stop reading her latest book, Bonk: ...

Letters From Readers I've read and enjoyed your blog for some time now and I was hoping you could give me some advice or steer me ...

It's new-column week, so without further ado: here's the new column.... Also, a thank you to sex writer Audacia Ray , for giving me...

Well, I have not had time to play with the Twitter widget for my sidebar, although I need to. Minx, and several other clever people, found ...

I was in a little boutique the other day, flipping through the racks, when the Seattle fire department dropped in for a surprise inspection...

Letter From a Reader (Greetings and nice compliments...) I have a question for you about toy care. I recently got my dream paddle. It...

Wednesday Night: Well, I was trying to write and post a different update this evening, with kinky letters and stuff, but I was utterly stym...

Notes On Various Topics First of all: wow. Obama seems to have gotten the Democratic nomination. Historic stuff, indeed. I hope he wins...

I am busy being me, and writing a column. But please be entertained by this post a pal of mine wrote, with his tongue thrust so far int...

4-day weeks go by so fast. Granted, I could have made appointments on Memorial Day. People asked. But I couldn't play in my dungeon, b...

Spamalot Wednesday night, late: I've had a good but busy day, and I'm so sleepy that I'm a bit punchy, and right now even spam ...

Mailbag I've gotten some very nice emails lately. It gives me great pleasure when people write and tell me they like my blog/column....

Blast From The Past I was cleaning out some corners of my office where the dust lay thick yesterday, and I came across a box I hadn’t ...

I don’t usually blog about current events, unless they are kink-related and I find them particularly noteworthy. There’s plenty of bona-fid...