Mistress Matisse

I meant to write an account of a strange man who hit on me, strangely, in the grocery store the other day. But it’s a quarter of two in the...

Wow, I was bitchy in that last post, wasn't I? But never mind, I am feeling back to my usual kind and generous self. Which is good, sin...

I was in a cranky mood for the early part of the day yesterday. A session with Jae and one of our favorite guys improved my outlook conside...

Various Things In regards to the “You look puffy” guy: An alert pal of mine reminded me of the really stupid theory of male courtship w...

A picture from a private Kinkfest after-party, with Hannah and three other pals of mine. Note how Hannah is displaying her truly respectful...

Speaking Of Women The new column.... Knowing the tendency for there to be vociferous outcry on this subject, as seen here and here, I am ...

By Women, For Women Event note: This Friday is the Women-Only party at the Wet Spot, and after having had my pals forever telling me about ...

What Not To Say In spite of sometimes-considerable provocation, I try not to talk too much here about the recent, real-life bad behavi...

Hello Dear Readers… So I decided to just write off last week, blog-wise. But let me catch you up. I did, in fact, go to Portland for Kinkf...

All right, I am forced to admit it - I am have been struck down by the Martian Death Flu that stalked so many of my friends this past winter...

Oh, my Dear Readers, I've neglected you shamefully, haven't I? Here's a podcast of Monk and I talking about what's going on ...

It sort of baffles me when people read things I didn’t write… Like this blogger, who has somehow gotten the facts turned backwards. ...

A letter from a reader... I have been curious for some time regarding the femmes. Where are the feminine girls/ladies/women in Seattle ? ...

A few final remarks...I'm amused, in a rather cynical way, how much more outraged people who aren't sex workers have been over the ...

Schedule, Travel, and Bikinis… Some notes about where I will be, and when, and why. (And some musings about the fashion requirements t...

For those who you liked the "that's not my dog" expression, here's some more of my personal lexicon of slang, specificall...

Here's a photo of me from karaoke Saturday night, looking slightly sweaty and bedraggled and singing about how my champagne brings all t...

Wow, that karaoke party? That was a bit surreal. A whole bunch of us were stuffed into this not-very-large room, it was very warm, and as th...

I have not felt like much like writing this week. So I’m glad many of ya’ll liked the column, and were kind enough to send me notes sayi...