Mistress Matisse

I have not felt like much like writing this week. So I’m glad many of ya’ll liked the column, and were kind enough to send me notes sayi...

Perhaps They Have The Right Idea I've come to the conclusion that some people really know what would be best for them, and for society a...

Wow, this was a busy weekend. Not half as busy for me as for some people, but busy enough! Miss K and I did attend the women's party F...

You say deviant like it's a bad thing . Study shows that spanking kids makes them more likely to grow up to be kinky. You've proba...

Remarks On Different Topics READ: I meant to post a link to this writer, Savannah Lee, earlier in the week, and I forgot, because I a...

Question From A Reader This may seem like an off question, but would ever consider waterboarding a client? With consent, of course! You ...

Okay, enough with love and marriage for a few days. Let’s talk about something kinky. For example, I had another girl join me for a dat...

The follow-up to the "Marry Him" post... So I spent some time trying to edit down all the letters I got into something approachin...

Wow. I'm not the only girl with an opinion about the "Marry Him" article. I have gotten over fifty emails, amounting to about ...

So, here’s the new column . This post won’t make much sense until you read both the article that inspired the column and then the column its...

Hey, look! I forgot I had one more podcast in the chute that I hadn't posted yet. So here we go - Monk and I talk about spanking... I am...

I love your writing and I wanted to ask your opinion about a poly situation where my boyfriends know about each other but have never met. ...

My Blue Heaven My blue obsession continues, and of course certain very sweet men in my life are totally catering to my desires for spa...

In most conventional ways, I’m not really the romantic type. For example, if I’m going to watch a movie, I’d usually rather watch people pr...

What I’m Doing In The Last Five Minutes Before You Arrive – Or, An Illustration Of Why You Should Not Be Early.* Put on chosen dress. R...

A pal of mine was talking recently about an upcoming women-only sex party. She’s excited about it, as are a number of my friends. It sounds ...

There are certain questions I get asked a lot, and while I’ve addressed many of them before, I keep getting asked, so I will make some remar...

A note to Belle De Jour: Congrats on the fiction-writing deal . It's the type of thing I'd like to do myself someday. Also, I seem t...

Oh my lord, has this been an insanely busy week. Wow. Good, but busy. While I recover... Read the newest column about polyamorous people and...

So, I was the the Bondage Is The Point party Sunday night at the Wet Spot, and while in conversation with a groups of pals, I remarked, ju...