Mistress Matisse

A quick note before I dash off again... Monk and I went to the midnight showing of Sweeney Todd last night. We enjoyed it tremendously. It’...

Before I go further, yes, commenting is off right this second, there’s some issues there, hopefully it’ll be back up soon… So, my feat...

I am off today to spend a day and a night with a friend. We have some lovely afternoon plans, and then we have tickets to The Jersey Boys . ...

Milestones: After my recent email exchange with the legendary Susie Bright, she asked me if she could re-publish one of my recent ...

So, I felt relaxed yesterday because I turned in my big article to the Stranger. This was not the regular column, this was a special piece I...

I’m still working on the Stranger piece, due today… So meanwhile, enjoy this photo from a play session with Jae and a gentleman of our acqua...

I’m having a huge dilemma. I am torn between two objects of lust. I can’t have them both – even a poly girl like myself understands tha...

Event recap: The SML fundraiser Friday night at the Cuff went great. I haven’t heard yet how much money we raised for Lambert House, but we...

Ring ring! I look at the phone. I shouldn’t answer it. Frankly, I almost never answer the phone anymore. I’m debating taking the number...

Give Me Money Well, not me exactly. Every year for the last however many years, I’ve been donating my time to The Stranger’s annual chari...

So, the amazingly cool event of last week? I got an email from someone saying she liked my columns. I do get some of those kinds of emails f...

Snippets from a social occasion... *** Monk and I were talking together, with some passion and intensity, about business strategies. A...

The Doughnut Files Notes from the weekend: Monk and I did indeed go record some more podcasts Friday night. We were at a professional so...

Fans of the whackasaurus phone callers – which is pretty much all of you, judging by the emails I get – enjoy the new column… *** A ...

People who do BDSM talk a lot about safewords, and what they are talking about is ways to communicate ease up or stop . But while red a...

I Love A Man Who Can Make Me Laugh You know who I love? I love William Shatner. I think he is the coolest, because for one thing, he’s made...

Pictures, And Some Words I'm working on some other writing today, so meanwhile, be entertained by the newest column, and some photos......

A new podcast, in which Monk and I talk about how to initiate a "Let's try something new in bed!" conversation with your lover...

Hey ya’ll... You’ve read about my excellent friend Miss K ? Well, she’s in the hospital again. Without going into detail, she’s had a re...

Ring Ring! Me: Hello? Caller: Hey, where are you located? Gotta love a guy who calls up strange women and demands to know where th...