Mistress Matisse

Well, Monk and I went to a fancy sound studio last night, and with the help of a local sound technician, recorded several short segments add...

This evening, Monk and I are going to go record some podcasts in a sound studio. What would you like to hear me talk about for five to ten ...

Question About Ethics in Polyamory I’ve been reading your blog for quite a while now and I always enjoy it. I know that you don’t answer ...

So I'm writing a longer post about poly ethics, in response to an email I got. But for now, be amused by t his article talking about how...

My two pieces in this week's Stranger... the column, and the Two Big Meanies piece... Enjoy!

Images From Folsom I sent pictures to Dan Savage and he posted some of them yesterday in the Slog, with commentary, so you can see them ...

Snippets of my day yesterday… I go to a Capitol Hill bank to make a deposit. Sitting in the drive-through, I put my slips through the tell...

Further Thoughts On Labor Issues In The Sex Industry Molly said yesterday: It kind of depresses me to hear you say (I paraphrase) "Just...

Sex Work and Entrepreneurism Last night Monk told me of an article he had read in Rolling Stone, about men in the gay porn industry. ...

Dropped Balls and Phone Calls So some kinky women I know have asked if I'm going to Wicked Womyn . The answer is: I think not. ...

Future Projects I have had some ideas lately about some future projects I’d like to do. Let’s see what ya’ll think of them. Video clip...

From The Stranger Slog: Hey, was one of ya'll checking me out? The new column in The Stranger: a look at pain tolerance. So, let...

Ring Ring! Me: hello? Caller: Yeah, hey, hello - are you a dominatrix? Is that what you are? The caller has a heavy East Coas...

Weekend Fashion/Social Blogging I love dresses – even when I’m stressed or cranky, when I put on a dress that I really feel good in, it ca...

The new column is out. But first, a small rant... I get a lot of emails about my Stranger columns, and most of them are very sweet and thoug...

Today, a thank-you to Belle De Jour for her mention of me in her blog recently... And speaking of sexy British things, Agent Provocateur ha...

I had dinner with Miss K last night, and we wrestled with t he ever-absorbing (to us, at least) issue of control. The non-erotic kind, that...

Kinky girl Hannah had something very right-on to say today about how tops must trust their bottoms... "I hear a lot from people that t...

For sale: costume for a winged fantasy creature. It’s part of the ongoing closet-purge. But I’m not selling this on eBay because of the...