Mistress Matisse

Snippets of my day yesterday… I go to a Capitol Hill bank to make a deposit. Sitting in the drive-through, I put my slips through the tell...

Further Thoughts On Labor Issues In The Sex Industry Molly said yesterday: It kind of depresses me to hear you say (I paraphrase) "Just...

Sex Work and Entrepreneurism Last night Monk told me of an article he had read in Rolling Stone, about men in the gay porn industry. ...

Dropped Balls and Phone Calls So some kinky women I know have asked if I'm going to Wicked Womyn . The answer is: I think not. ...

Future Projects I have had some ideas lately about some future projects I’d like to do. Let’s see what ya’ll think of them. Video clip...

From The Stranger Slog: Hey, was one of ya'll checking me out? The new column in The Stranger: a look at pain tolerance. So, let...

Ring Ring! Me: hello? Caller: Yeah, hey, hello - are you a dominatrix? Is that what you are? The caller has a heavy East Coas...

Weekend Fashion/Social Blogging I love dresses – even when I’m stressed or cranky, when I put on a dress that I really feel good in, it ca...

The new column is out. But first, a small rant... I get a lot of emails about my Stranger columns, and most of them are very sweet and thoug...

Today, a thank-you to Belle De Jour for her mention of me in her blog recently... And speaking of sexy British things, Agent Provocateur ha...

I had dinner with Miss K last night, and we wrestled with t he ever-absorbing (to us, at least) issue of control. The non-erotic kind, that...

Kinky girl Hannah had something very right-on to say today about how tops must trust their bottoms... "I hear a lot from people that t...

For sale: costume for a winged fantasy creature. It’s part of the ongoing closet-purge. But I’m not selling this on eBay because of the...

Complete and unedited email from the inbox…. I, 25, years old, nice, one, young, male, slave, I am sitting down turkey I, machine, technicia...

Busy day yesterday: I went with Monk for his check-in with the doctor about his broken collarbone. (It's healing just fine, although the...

Well, this is...interesting: platform shoes with built-in alarms for sex workers. Given that more women are assaulted by husbands, boyfriend...

I Got The Music In Me For a while now, I’ve been meaning to blog about my severe case of what I call “Musical-Tourettes Syndrone”. But I h...

The new column: America's Next Top Domme, episode two... And can I just wax rhapsodic for a minute about a very under appreciated portio...

Last Friday, a reader mentioned a show I did at Vain a few years ago. He was referring to the Paradise Hotel party, in 2003. It was a prom...