Mistress Matisse

Dropped Balls and Phone Calls So some kinky women I know have asked if I'm going to Wicked Womyn . The answer is: I think not. ...

Future Projects I have had some ideas lately about some future projects I’d like to do. Let’s see what ya’ll think of them. Video clip...

From The Stranger Slog: Hey, was one of ya'll checking me out? The new column in The Stranger: a look at pain tolerance. So, let...

Ring Ring! Me: hello? Caller: Yeah, hey, hello - are you a dominatrix? Is that what you are? The caller has a heavy East Coas...

Weekend Fashion/Social Blogging I love dresses – even when I’m stressed or cranky, when I put on a dress that I really feel good in, it ca...

The new column is out. But first, a small rant... I get a lot of emails about my Stranger columns, and most of them are very sweet and thoug...

Today, a thank-you to Belle De Jour for her mention of me in her blog recently... And speaking of sexy British things, Agent Provocateur ha...

I had dinner with Miss K last night, and we wrestled with t he ever-absorbing (to us, at least) issue of control. The non-erotic kind, that...

Kinky girl Hannah had something very right-on to say today about how tops must trust their bottoms... "I hear a lot from people that t...

For sale: costume for a winged fantasy creature. It’s part of the ongoing closet-purge. But I’m not selling this on eBay because of the...

Complete and unedited email from the inbox…. I, 25, years old, nice, one, young, male, slave, I am sitting down turkey I, machine, technicia...

Busy day yesterday: I went with Monk for his check-in with the doctor about his broken collarbone. (It's healing just fine, although the...

Well, this is...interesting: platform shoes with built-in alarms for sex workers. Given that more women are assaulted by husbands, boyfriend...

I Got The Music In Me For a while now, I’ve been meaning to blog about my severe case of what I call “Musical-Tourettes Syndrone”. But I h...

The new column: America's Next Top Domme, episode two... And can I just wax rhapsodic for a minute about a very under appreciated portio...

Last Friday, a reader mentioned a show I did at Vain a few years ago. He was referring to the Paradise Hotel party, in 2003. It was a prom...

Weekend Fashion Blogging Is this not the most gorgeous dress you've seen all day? I'm slightly surprised that the designer brought ...

It's new-column day, but first, a note: if you read the paper copy of The Stranger, they are undergoing a re-design process right now. F...