Mistress Matisse

Weekend Fashion/Social Blogging I love dresses – even when I’m stressed or cranky, when I put on a dress that I really feel good in, it ca...

The new column is out. But first, a small rant... I get a lot of emails about my Stranger columns, and most of them are very sweet and thoug...

Today, a thank-you to Belle De Jour for her mention of me in her blog recently... And speaking of sexy British things, Agent Provocateur ha...

I had dinner with Miss K last night, and we wrestled with t he ever-absorbing (to us, at least) issue of control. The non-erotic kind, that...

Kinky girl Hannah had something very right-on to say today about how tops must trust their bottoms... "I hear a lot from people that t...

For sale: costume for a winged fantasy creature. It’s part of the ongoing closet-purge. But I’m not selling this on eBay because of the...

Complete and unedited email from the inbox…. I, 25, years old, nice, one, young, male, slave, I am sitting down turkey I, machine, technicia...

Busy day yesterday: I went with Monk for his check-in with the doctor about his broken collarbone. (It's healing just fine, although the...

Well, this is...interesting: platform shoes with built-in alarms for sex workers. Given that more women are assaulted by husbands, boyfriend...

I Got The Music In Me For a while now, I’ve been meaning to blog about my severe case of what I call “Musical-Tourettes Syndrone”. But I h...

The new column: America's Next Top Domme, episode two... And can I just wax rhapsodic for a minute about a very under appreciated portio...

Last Friday, a reader mentioned a show I did at Vain a few years ago. He was referring to the Paradise Hotel party, in 2003. It was a prom...

Weekend Fashion Blogging Is this not the most gorgeous dress you've seen all day? I'm slightly surprised that the designer brought ...

It's new-column day, but first, a note: if you read the paper copy of The Stranger, they are undergoing a re-design process right now. F...

Books I’m Browsing The Harlequin: Anita Blake, Vampire Hunter, Book 15 , by Laurell K. Hamilton Yeah, I know, the last couple of them...

Really nice things that happened yesterday: I went with Monk to see a shoulder specialist, who was extremely helpful and reassuring. He told...

I've decided that on weekends I'm going to post, if I feel so inclined, about fashion. So if you're just here for the kink, come...

The new column... What does one call that other person you're involved with? Meanwhile, I'm busy with my world, which is really a ...

Furniture Musings Every Mistress needs nice furniture, and I'm very fond of the stuff I have. Just three really well-made basic pieces ...