Mistress Matisse

New column: I hope you'll be entertained by this... While I get ready to pick up Monk at the airport, and entertain him - and probably s...

While I'm away, check out this really good example of a really bad poly situation. That's my take, at least. I think the man involv...

I am so not ready to leave town tomorrow! But there is no denying that packing for non-fetishy travel is simpler than packing for kink event...

Fashionable Friends Note: All photo links today are work-safe! The women’s clothing sale/swap was last Sunday, and it was great. It wa...

Happy Fourth Of July, my friends. Today I'm going to hang with my pals, cook burgers on the grill, and be pleased to be an American. Eve...

Form Letters of Love Hmmnn, I'm feeling vicious today. I want to be mean to someone. Right now. That's easy. Just open the inbox, an...

Prompted by a pal’s remarks in a private journal, I read this article yesterday in the NYT about women who have rather time- and money- inte...

The new column... And a reminder: I'm out of town from July 10th to the 18th . I'm getting booked up, so if you want to see me befor...

Recent iTunes Downloads I got some reasonably current stuff… Bubbly, Colbie Caillat. A simple song, but she’s got a sweet voice. Ta...

As promised...Video clips of two pals of mine doing evil, evil things to each other. There are needles, there are boobs, and there are loud ...

Semi-private social event: So, a bunch of women I know are getting together at a private location next Sunday afternoon to have sort of a g...

Do My Research For Me? I'm wanting to create some poll/surveys for various questions about sexuality. What I'd like is for peopl...

I am really not that into astrology. However, sometimes Rob Brezsny is sort of spooky . He's lucky we don't burn witches anymore.

Snippet from a conversation I had recently: “If you already hate yourself when you get into sex work, you’ll have bad experiences, because...

Tuesday, edited: Ok, I was a bit cranky last night when I put up that entry. After a night's sleep I'm in a better frame of mind. Pe...

Note to clients and friends: If I owe you a phone call or an email, I am not mad at you, and I am not blowing you off. Monday went rather pe...

More phone-related silliness... I just ordered a new phone and I amused myself downloading free ringtones for it. Want to hear? I’m taking s...

Recent phone oddness…. I’ve been getting a spate of dirty phone messages lately from one particular person. That’s not distressing to me –...

Vacation I just bought a pair of plane tickets. In July, Monk and I are going on a little trip together. Like, a vacation. It’s sort of ...

The new column. Fans of the weird voicemails, take note... Yesterday was the birthday of two very cool people: Prince, and Jae. They h...