Mistress Matisse

I've spent most of this week doing things no decent person should do. Yay! I haven't used that super-evil paddle yet, but I did use ...

Not Writing I’m not feeling particularly creative this week. Or perhaps I should say that all my creative energy is being channeled into my ...

Wow, it’s being an extremely busy week! All very good stuff, but still - whew! What's new? Well, Monk is back home from Boston , ...

While we’re on a pictures-of-toys roll…. Look at this nasty contraption I just got over the weekend. It’s a thick wooden paddle someone ...

Fans of the silly phone calls will enjoy this week's new column... In other news, Blue Eyes, that sweet man, brought me a cute little to...

From The Mailbag Hi Mistress Matisse, I have a friend in an Master/slave relationship (she's the slave) and from some of the ...

So, this past weekend I was formally inducted into the Official Nerd club. I have a lot of nerdy/geeky tendencies anyway – I read a lot, I...

This is one of those brief-entry-because-I’m-busy-writing-a-column posts. So, some random thoughts I had today... About books: Did yo...

Books On My Bedside Table... Who Was The Man In The Iron Mask? And Other Historical Mysteries, by Hugh Ross Williamson. “This is a t...

It’s last Tuesday, I’m sitting in my office, and the scene outside my window is dazzling white. I’m working on the computer, being happy tha...

The Mistress is a busy girl today.... so entertain yourself with the new column.

Prompted by a reader comment yesterday, here is a snippet from a type of email I get occasionally… Why don’t you write about what you r...

Writing a column, and downloading from iTunes… Ship of Fools, World Party. Loved this song when it came out in the eighties, and I u...

I had an amazingly nice weekend. I love my whirlwind social life, but it’s very nice to get to spend relaxed time alone with Monk . Sunday...

First, about the new column. The Stranger is doing a re-org of both the website and the dead-tree paper, and things have been a little confu...

Last night was interesting: I got snowed in at my studio. I started a session at four pm with Milo , and all was clear. We were playing pret...

From the Mailbag …I am only 21 but I have known for several years that I don’t want to be involved in any sexual dynamic other than as a s...

Just a few remarks, because I’m busy writing a column… The workshop Sunday where I tied up Monk’s bits? Was great. It was just about t...

So I was looking at the rather low level of comments last week and thinking, huh, must be a slow week for blog hits. That happens sometimes...

As has been noted elsewhere ... This Sunday Max does his monthly bondage class, and this month he's doing head, hair and genital bondage...