Mistress Matisse

I'm thinking I'm going to get some blowback on this one: the new column.

Call I got yesterday… Ring Ring! Me: Hello? Caller: Yes, hello, I want to see you today. This caller has a very stro...

Good lord, I’m busy - there is truly no rest for the wicked this week. Especially when Max and I are having eighteen people over for dinner ...

Thank you to everyone who expressed sweet birthday wishes to me. I’ll be posting some more detailed thank-you notes later this week, but for...

I’m writing this Sunday night, while I’m rather pleasantly worn out from spending a really lovely weekend with Roman. My actual birthday ...

Shopping for kinky holiday gifts by local businesses? I gotcha covered in this week's column. Also in The Stranger, an interesting piec...

I'm in the mood to rant. So there was a whole thread about strippers and the Seattle 4-foot law over on The Stranger Slog earlier this ...

Roman has a "stupid phone call" of his own today. Unbelievable.

Pop Culture What have I been taking in lately? Well, Roman and I went to see “The Prestige” last week. (My choice. Anything with gaslights...

Random Sunday Post No kink, just fashion, just because I’m wasting time window-shopping online instead of working on a column… ...

Wow, I have had so much to do lately, and while I have had some lovely time with some of my boys, a lot of my week has been tedious...

Democratic House, Democratic Senate! w00t! I'm very, very happy. But I have expectations. Okay, Blue Wave Winners, we elected you, so ...

Okay, I know I've been really bad about writing this week, but I’m having a few un-creative days. For one thing, I’m a bit worried ...

Vote. Seriously.

Everything Old Is New Again – At Least For Someone I’m a busy girl today, so be amused by these letters highlighting the marvelous cons...

I've gotten a slew of letters from people wanting sex-work advice lately. So tomorrow, look for a lengthy post answering them. But today...

Unconnected Musings Fashion: Saturday night I did something I thought I’d never do again: I tucked my skinny jeans into my tall boots...

Girls on Film Every few weeks someone sends me an email that says something like, “Hey, how come you don’t make DVDs? It would be so cool, a...

Birthday Wishes As some of you already know… I’m having a birthday at the end of November. (No, I’m not telling you what one.) I'm a t...