Mistress Matisse

Shopping for kinky holiday gifts by local businesses? I gotcha covered in this week's column. Also in The Stranger, an interesting piec...

I'm in the mood to rant. So there was a whole thread about strippers and the Seattle 4-foot law over on The Stranger Slog earlier this ...

Roman has a "stupid phone call" of his own today. Unbelievable.

Pop Culture What have I been taking in lately? Well, Roman and I went to see “The Prestige” last week. (My choice. Anything with gaslights...

Random Sunday Post No kink, just fashion, just because I’m wasting time window-shopping online instead of working on a column… ...

Wow, I have had so much to do lately, and while I have had some lovely time with some of my boys, a lot of my week has been tedious...

Democratic House, Democratic Senate! w00t! I'm very, very happy. But I have expectations. Okay, Blue Wave Winners, we elected you, so ...

Okay, I know I've been really bad about writing this week, but I’m having a few un-creative days. For one thing, I’m a bit worried ...

Vote. Seriously.

Everything Old Is New Again – At Least For Someone I’m a busy girl today, so be amused by these letters highlighting the marvelous cons...

I've gotten a slew of letters from people wanting sex-work advice lately. So tomorrow, look for a lengthy post answering them. But today...

Unconnected Musings Fashion: Saturday night I did something I thought I’d never do again: I tucked my skinny jeans into my tall boots...

Girls on Film Every few weeks someone sends me an email that says something like, “Hey, how come you don’t make DVDs? It would be so cool, a...

Birthday Wishes As some of you already know… I’m having a birthday at the end of November. (No, I’m not telling you what one.) I'm a t...

This week's column and calendar . And to answer the inevitable query: Miss Candy can be found here...

(It's Tuesday night, actually. But close enough to being Wednesday...) I had a very weird day Monday. Not good weird, either. Perhaps I’...

New weird-sexual-word for the day: Jelquing. I saw it over on BitchLab and I followed the Wiki link because I had no idea what it was. Wik...

I'm having a nice day with Roman today - we went out last night and had steaks at the Metropolitan Grill, and slept in late this morning...