Mistress Matisse

You know, I’ve gone pretty much my whole adult life thinking of myself as a renegade. A societal outlaw. A cultural desperado, if you will. ...

Various silliness… Cute men’s restroom art in New Zealand. And more Kiwi-related information: The Blokes Guide To Taking A Leak . You boys w...

Interesting thread about a often touchy topic: weight and body image. In this case, specifically about the bodies of people in the BDSM comm...

Foodie I don't feel profound today. Let's talk about something basic, like my taste in food. I am actually quite boring about food. ...

*************************************** Roman and I went to see "Capote" last night. It was astounding. Absolutely amazing. I have...

Somewhere in the last ten years, shopping for clothes stopped being something I did for recreation and became...a chore. I don't know wh...

Penii Oh, my god, do I love this site. No, not because it’s got lots of pictures of boy’s bits – but because it does address the ago-o...

As I plunge unto another insanely busy week, clients please take note: at this precise moment, I have time available for one appointment on ...

Better late than never: This week's column and kink calendar. And if you've been kinky in Seattle long enough to remember C-Space , ...

What’s up with me? Well, I went here for dinner last night, and it was way yummy. The service was a little uneven, though. In some ways our...

Bizarre sex trivia about me: I once slept with a professional psychic to see if he could tell the difference between a real orgasm and a fak...

Conversation between me and a potential client*... Him: I’m really into tickling. Me: That’s fine. Him: And my fantasy is that I’...

I’m way too slammed to answer individual emails and blog, so we’re going to combine that today. A very nice reader writes: I have a question...

Check out the new column and kink calendar.... And notice, if you haven't already, that I'm teaching a Spanking Class at Babelan...

This and that… I’ve gotten a few angsty emails about this issue: Blogger axes adult blogs. I’m not especially worried. I think what they’re...

Weird email of the day Are you the daughter of the Mistress who died??? That's it, no salutation, no signature, no other text. Bizarre. ...

A note to my close friends: that thing I was doing this weekend? Went really, really well. In a massively-tension-filled, exhausting sort o...

Happy Friday, people... I have a busy weekend ahead of me, so please enjoy the new column about my experiences at Folsom Street Fair . Play ...

So You Want To Be A Pro Domme? I got another email today wanting to know if I would hire the writer to work in my dungeon, and I decided to ...