Mistress Matisse

Hey, want to get involved in the Seattle BDSM community? Volunteer! A letter from the awesome director of the Wet Spot, Allena Gabosch... T...

Friday again, and another column. This week: advice to would-be clients of sex workers. Max is still away, so I'm on my own for the week...

From the Book of Questions: Love and Sex When you meet people do you ever imagine what they look like naked or they are like sexually? Oh, h...

So, I try not to be too political around here, but man, with all the interesting stuff going on, I can't help it. There's Katrina ne...

Back from the trip with mom - Salish Lodge was divine as usual. They do this foot-scrub-and-massage thingie in the spa that I would be happ...

It's Friday, and the new column and calendar is up. What else? Well, it's been busy around here. Max is leaving today to go on one o...

Questions Sometimes, I admit, blogging is a difficult task. I sit down in front of the computer and think, “What the hell am I going to...

Some light relief from disaster news… Article about poly in the NYT . It’s interesting to see the word and the concept make its way into the...

Some Days My Government Really Frightens Me… I’ve been reading about Katrina all weekend. What a shameful debacle. Local, state and federal ...

Another great list of places and way to donate to Katrina victims. I feel so bad for those poor people who have lost everything. And for mys...

I've had a nice Round One of my visit with Mom, and thank you to everyone who asked. Now she's off to Alaska for a week, so I'll...

While my mother is here visiting, I'm going to have less time to write. So instead, please enjoy some of the Blog Greatest Hits. Be awar...

The Maternal Invasion begins today. The Mominatrix arrives!

So, I’ve gotten some “when are you going to do another weird phone-call entry?” emails lately. Sorry, I’ve stopped doing the phone-calls ent...

Linky Linky It's Friday, and the new column and kink calendar are up... An interesting post about managing jealousy in poly relati...

Speaking of Parties A post copied from my friend Joe, the coodinator for the "Bondage Is The Point" parties. This is going to be b...

It’s funny when you’re out in the world and you suddenly encounter…yourself. Or at least, an image of yourself in time. I was at a party thi...

No long post today, because I'm currently obsessed with looking at this site. Yes, I am considering b-b-b-buying a... You know. That...

About a year ago I noted, with horror, that something called “A Submissives Prayer” was being posted around the web. I remarked at that tim...

As has been noted, the Stranger column is now up... And life is good today. The bank balance is high, the scale is low, and I've got two...