Mistress Matisse

Email Silliness... Dear Mistress, Your website is penetrating, poignant and articulate. And indeed, You are absolutely stunning, Mistress Ma...

I had a lovely, lovely time with Roman last night…details on that later, since I'm about to plunge into a busy day. I will note that - ...

Apparently I should have cultivated a taste for caviar instead… Bad weather and pest problems have created a tomato shortage. That's ba...

Event Notes… So the Sex Life Live show taping at ReBar last night went well. (Much more fun this time than the last time I worked with Da...

So, it's Video Clip Day, and this week I've decided it time to show you the latest bizarre toy in my collection: The Fucking Machin...

Downloaded from ITunes lately… All My Life, by Foo Fighters Barrel of a Gun, by Depeche Mode Bela Lugosi's Dead, by Bauhaus Bor...

Miss K and I were sitting in Hana during one of our weekly dinners, talking about work. "So there's this guy I saw once, a long t...

I wouldn't normally do another link roundup so soon after the last one…but I'm having a busy few days, and I don't want you, my ...

So, to those of you here in the USA, Happy Thanksgiving... Max is downstairs right now, gearing up to cook the big traditional dinner, which...

Hey, it's Tuesday, and that means it's Video Clip Day. This week's clip: Mistress Matisse Pierces a Nipple. This would be a...

A little linky goodness for you…. If you didn't already, go read my column… This week's topic: Poly Conventional Wisdom. Anot...

Today is my birthday....So thank you, all of you who sent me friendly birthday wishes - they are much appreciated!

Since some of you expressed some curiosity yesterday about my date with Roman – and since he's given the okay to me writing about it in ...

Good god...A completely fabulous date with Roman last night, which resulted in my stumbling into bed at 5am. And far too early this morning:...

Yes! Yes! Oh, I am so very , very happy right now. I got a note today from Dan Savage (the editor of The Stranger ) telling me that in two ...

I need a volunteer. I found this link to - brace yourself - a Christian FemDom site, and I just cannot bring myself to go explore it. Someon...

Okay, I think it's time for another video clip...This is taken by me rather than of me - it's footage from a private BDSM play-pa...

A photo from the archives, just because...It's from my self-portrait series, Dec 2002. Meanwhile, I'm spending my day putteri...

"Why don't you have any tattoos?" People ask me that sometimes – meaning, people who've seen enough of my body to be certa...

I have this question that I used to use as an icebreaker at cocktail parties, and it’s this: If they were making a movie about your life sto...