Mistress Matisse

Some observations on professional dominatrixes and the men who see them , by a non-professional female dominant. I don't agree with ever...

Email From A Self-Fired Client Dear Mistress Matisse, My name is (DELETED) and I had the great privilege of meeting with you for a se...

I'm home, and I'm wiped out from a busy day traveling. So nothing hugely creative today. But, for your amusement, here is a list of ...

Well, Max and I have had a wonderful time, but we're happy to be coming home today. So I'll write more later with details about New ...

New York Notes First off, a big kiss to a dear man, who can fix things for me even when I really drop a ball…You’re great, baby! Tonight we ...

Yesterday I mentioned a piece I'd written about what it means to be my personal submissive, and the ever-resourceful Max turned up a cop...

So, I’m safely here in New York, having survived a nicely uneventful plane trip, and then a truly hellish drive through New Jersey. (We flew...

Well. I knew I'd get some responses to the "why I don't see female clients" post, but - lordy, lordy, people, ya'll ha...

The Sixty-Four Thousand Dollar Question Someone sent me another one of those "How come you won't see female clients?" ema...

More Emails From People Who Just Aren't Paying Attention I am a 44 year old writer, philosopher, and psychotherapist, and I would en...

So, the Week Of Wickedness is continuing…I had an interesting event Monday night that I'll discuss at some future date, and then two da...

From The MaleBag greetings Mistress Matisse: my name is (DELETED). i am a 55 year old, white male who has been married for 30 years. i h...

"Only good girls keep diaries. Bad girls don't have the time." Tallulah Bankhead. Tallulah sure got that right. Not that ...

WOW I'm busy drafting a Stranger column, and frankly, I'm a little wiped out from my busy weekend. But I wanted to at least star...

I'm rather busy this weekend - and I don't mean I'm doing housework, or writing, or visiting elderly shut-ins for charity. I mea...

Politics, Sex, Food, Silliness, and A Public Service Announcement Oh, this is kinky: Bush Feels OB-GYNs Are Kept From 'Practicing ...

Me, Max and Strippers Si reminds me that I promised to talk about Max's latest visit to a strip club… It happened like this - Max...

I Couldn't Make This Stuff Up From the mailbag... … I know you must be very busy and your time very precious to you, but I plead ...

An encouraging quote from a gentleman calling himself Sir William... There are 2,500,000 people in the Seattle metro area. Of those, 10% ...