Mistress Matisse

More Emails From People Who Just Aren't Paying Attention I am a 44 year old writer, philosopher, and psychotherapist, and I would en...

So, the Week Of Wickedness is continuing…I had an interesting event Monday night that I'll discuss at some future date, and then two da...

From The MaleBag greetings Mistress Matisse: my name is (DELETED). i am a 55 year old, white male who has been married for 30 years. i h...

"Only good girls keep diaries. Bad girls don't have the time." Tallulah Bankhead. Tallulah sure got that right. Not that ...

WOW I'm busy drafting a Stranger column, and frankly, I'm a little wiped out from my busy weekend. But I wanted to at least star...

I'm rather busy this weekend - and I don't mean I'm doing housework, or writing, or visiting elderly shut-ins for charity. I mea...

Politics, Sex, Food, Silliness, and A Public Service Announcement Oh, this is kinky: Bush Feels OB-GYNs Are Kept From 'Practicing ...

Me, Max and Strippers Si reminds me that I promised to talk about Max's latest visit to a strip club… It happened like this - Max...

I Couldn't Make This Stuff Up From the mailbag... … I know you must be very busy and your time very precious to you, but I plead ...

An encouraging quote from a gentleman calling himself Sir William... There are 2,500,000 people in the Seattle metro area. Of those, 10% ...

It's incumbent upon me, as a highly visible representative of the BDSM community, to remember to be tolerant – in public, at least - of ...

The Naked Truth It'll come as shock to you all, I know – but in truth, it must to be said: Roman is actually not a well-behaved subm...

Jam packed day today – first, the Steve O interview and then a fast draft of the material, then I have a session with a client, followed by...

Meeting of the Minds The good people at The Stranger have asked me to write a piece about crazy-ass performance artist/stuntman Steve O, f...

Thanks a whole bunch for all the cool hotel suggestions, folks, I think we've now got something lined up. But you were all extremely he...

New York City People, Help Me! Max and I are going to be in town in late September and we're looking for a cool hotel, preferably on t...

I just never know what I'm going to find in my email...Sometimes it's something very sweet that I enjoy reading, like this note from...

Sunday Morning: The dungeon looks like a rope bomb went off – there are hemp lines dangling from the ceiling, from points in the walls, and...

I made an flip remark in a post Tuesday about not running a dating service. It's true, I'm not. But sometimes I amuse myself thinkin...

I had a busy day today - one client earlier, and the gym in the evening, but the afternoon in between was devoted to... shopping. Even tho...